Why pick on religion? Why religion matters to the non-religious
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Author’s note: This article was written in response to reader comments from article ID 1237: “If you can’t prove God doesn’t exist, why not believe?“
By David Annis
Article ID: 136
I have been asked why I bother trying to convince people that the God they choose to believe in does not exist. There are many common beliefs that I don’t share, like the one about Steve Martin being a comic genius. I choose to ignore that belief. There are other religions, such as Taoism, that I have never criticized. Why then do I debate other religious beliefs?
To explain, here’s a true story about my oldest son. When he was 5 years old we went through a period when he was clearly very upset by something. We had no idea what it was and he wouldn’t tell us. His nanny noticed it too and talked to us about it. Disappointed that we didn’t know what was bothering him, she vowed to figure it out. One day when my wife and I returned home, our nanny told us she had solved the mystery.
“This is going to sound a lot worse than it is,” she said. “I offered to play basketball with him and he wouldn’t play, so I asked what was bothering him. This time he actually answered.”
He said, “I can’t tell you, it’s a secret and I’m not supposed to tell anyone, especially an adult.” Our nanny suggested that he could always share his secret with his parents. Our son replied that this secret was so unique, it was especially important that he not share it with mom and dad. As you can imagine, at this point my wife and I had horrible visions racing through our heads. But our nanny had pulled out all the stops to convince him to share his secret and eventually the promise of a huge ice cream sundae did the trick.
Our son told his secret. He said, “Jesus is my savior.”
This revelation came from the woman who cleans our house. She had promised our son a silver cross if he would believe that Jesus was his savior. Knowing we wouldn’t approve, she swore him to secrecy. She knew it was wrong to encourage a five year old to keep a secret from his parents. But she decided that saving his soul from eternal damnation was more important.
I called my son over and asked him if he knew who Jesus was or what the word “savior” meant. The answer to both questions was no.
Now, let’s cut briefly to education. My child can discuss murder and war in his school but was reprimanded for discussing sex in the hallway; not in an obscene way, not inaccurately, just giving an answer to a fellow first grader who said that she didn’t know what the difference was between boys and girls. The teacher was worried that a parent would object to their daughter getting “sex education”.
These stories quite nicely illustrate my issues with some religions. These religions encourage their believers to think that they have a monopoly on the truth, that they need to restrict the actions of others based on their beliefs, and that they must convince others to think as they do. These draw my ire because of the way that they affect me. On a high level, they lead to restrictions on stem cell research, terrorist attacks in the name of religion, fights over abortion, holy wars, hostility to science, and bans on gay marriage. So back to the title of this article: why pick on religion? For me, it’s justified on a personal level. I see religious ideas encroaching into my kids’ schools. I see censorship of legitimate discussion. And with the bribe of a silver cross, I’ve experienced people trying to proselytize my kids.
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